Reuben in the UK: From Football Dreams to Care Work and a Desire to Return Home
Reuben, a Ghanaian who moved to the UK in 2018, shared his story of struggle, survival, and future plans. Originally from Kasoa, he once dreamed of becoming a professional footballer. Football consumed his youth, but as money became involved, it derailed his education and slowed his progress. Realizing football would not secure his future, he decided to learn a trade.
Back in Ghana, Reuben ran a boutique and also drove a sprinter bus. Later, he traveled to Qatar, where he worked as a driver for two years. The money he saved there helped him process his move to the UK. “I was young and had no children depending on me, so I took the chance,” he said.
Arriving in London on a visitor’s visa, Reuben was fortunate to have support from an uncle who guided him. He first stayed in Manchester before moving to Watford, where he began doing car wash jobs. Later, through connections, he entered into a “balata” (arranged relationship for papers) with a lady, which helped him secure his stay.
He eventually found a job in care, though the COVID-19 pandemic made the work extremely difficult and left many stranded. Despite the challenges, Reuben pushed through, later moving to Scotland because of family reasons. He has now lived in the UK for seven years, working in care and currently at Tesco.
Still, he admits life abroad has not been easy. “I’m tired. I want to return to Ghana,” he confessed. Inspired by the teachings of Mr. Obeng, who encourages Ghanaians abroad to invest back home, Reuben has started studying opportunities in Ghana. He loves the car business and farming and plans to buy properties, rent them out, and reestablish himself in business.
Reuben once tried importing cars from the UK to Ghana, but after challenges and losses, he sold everything off. This time, he wants to restart with a better strategy. “If you wait to gather big capital before returning to Ghana, you will waste money. It’s better to start small,” he advised.
He also cautioned Ghanaians planning to sell their properties to move abroad. “First, come on a visit visa and see things for yourself. Don’t rush. Many waste money here and still live the same way they did in Ghana,” he explained.
Now settled in Scotland with a Ghanaian partner and a child, Reuben reflects on his choices. While the UK gave him survival, Ghana holds his future. “There’s money in Ghana if you plan well. I’m ready to go back and build something lasting,” he said.
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