Princess, also known as Ghana’s Finest Untouchable Princess, is a Ghanaian currently based in the UK. She previously went on vacation in St. Lucia but has now returned to the UK. Speaking openly, she said:
“I went on vacation to relieve stress, and I feel relaxed now. I won’t allow anything to disturb my peace.”
Princess touched on the importance of parenting and the damage that broken homes can cause when one parent is completely cut off.
“Both mothers and fathers have God-given roles in a child’s life. Some mothers try to play both roles, but it’s simply not possible. We need to allow both parents to be in their children’s lives. Let go of the anger, hatred, and frustration—for the sake of the child.”
Reflecting on her childhood, she revealed that her parents divorced when she was 10. Her mother raised her well, but she admits there were things only a father could’ve provided.
“My mom didn’t allow my dad to be part of our lives because she was angry. I remember him trying to visit us, but she never gave him a chance. That decision affected me deeply. When I turned 30, I realized I didn’t even know how to choose a good man. My marriage eventually ended, and I had to start over. I made many mistakes because I never had a proper example of a father figure.”
She added that her mother often spoke negatively about her father, which influenced how she and her siblings saw him.
“It’s dangerous to brainwash children against a parent—it’s like a silent pandemic. My uncle had to stand in as a father figure even though my real dad was alive. It damaged my ability to identify and accept good men. When a woman shuts out a man and makes him look worthless, she sets her children up for pain.”
Princess said she finally reached out to her father when she was 25, around the time she was getting married.
“He was so humble and happy to reconnect with us. He’s someone who always wants to help. But the programming from my mother made it hard. She felt cheated financially and tried to do everything alone. The system in the UK is also structured in a way that breaks families. Once we start receiving government benefits, we begin to devalue the man’s presence in the home.”
She compared the values in Ghana to those in the UK.
“Back home, we value our families more. Here, the system takes over. Especially among African and Caribbean communities, men are being pushed out of their roles—not just financially, but also in terms of authority at home. That’s a big issue.”
Princess emphasized the importance of co-parenting, even after divorce.
“Some breakups weren’t the man’s choice—he just had no other option but to leave. My father, for example, wanted to stay married until death. He has since remarried, and he’s doing well. My mom never remarried, and now she’s alone.”
“We need to prioritize our children’s well-being. When they grow up without the guidance of both parents, it creates lifelong issues. All her children have moved out and started families, but she’s left alone. Even my children are scared when I mention calling their father—the name alone intimidates them. Imagine if he had been around daily.”
Princess concluded by saying she is preparing to remarry, but her parents are still not on good terms, making it difficult.
“When a woman feels she’s doing everything and stops valuing the man, she often ends up divorcing him. But at what cost? Our children suffer the consequences.”
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